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Monday, January 28, 2013 6:18 PM

I only have like 10minutes to post. So....

Today something happened. Okay something small happened. But I realised this concept of ........
Equality?

I'm not sure if you guys who read this will think I'm acting smart or immature or heartless. But I will just go on with my post k!

It's like through our own eyes now... We see everything around us.
We see other people.
But you can't see yourself ! Not your face at least.
It's like those computer games. Or halo shooting game.
You see that 'screen' through your eyes.
The same 'screen' day in day out.
When you're among a crowd this screen is multiplied by the number of people there. 'Screen' 'screen' 'screen'
Everyone sees their own 'screen' at their own position through their own eyes.
So when you're looking at other people through your 'screen'.. You're actually looking at a people who can't see themselves.
And as much as you have feelings.. The other party has capacity to have same amount of feelings towards your action to that person.
So don't do things . Never do things to others things that you don't even like happen to you.

I realised that in sec 1 and I thought it was damn cool LOL

And a lot of time these 'screen' comes along with feelings
Sometimes when you're looking through your own screen too much. You tend to forget other screens are there.
Everybody feels something.

And everyone.. Every screen.. Wants something.

So for example
A working adult works for money for his family.
A housewife cooks and clean everyday for the best of her family.

Almost everyone in life basically want one thing.
And when you focus on that one thing that they want.. You realise that you become more forgiving.

A naggy mother screaming at you to eat is cause through her 'screen' she love you so much and she wants the best for you but she feel so tired cause you don't want the best for yourself.
A father who comes home moody and scolds you randomly = an adult who works so hard for the family and is tired at home.
A burglar who steals food or even money = basically cause he doesn't have enough.
That same burglar has NO intention of ruining the stall.
A best friend quarrels and almost break up with you = internally he feels very hurt by what you did
An auntie pushes her way into the mrt with brute force = she wants to get things done.
People judge others = they were judged themselves
Some wants attention from people = they feel neglected
An annoying classmate talks a lot more and pull weird jokes = he wants to fit in.
A friend refuses to go out with you and wants to study = he really wants to study and rather choose his own form of enjoyment cause he's tired

Granted sometimes things might seem not good.. Inconsiderate. Annoying. Frustrating. Sound like excuses.
But I realised that when you focus on the main wants they people have.
Their true main goal.
You realise that you will become more forgiving of the mistakes they make.
No one person truly intentionally affect others. Unless you have done something to them.
Most or almost all of them really want to meet their main goal. And along the way things happen. But that was never truly their intention.

I don't know how much of this makes sense to you guys heh.
But I just realised this
Don't know if I'm early or late.
But I think I'm so caught up with myself lately.
I hope this makes things better !!

Below is a photo of me after ballet !!!!
Normal tee and tights with hair in bun. Three times a week heh.