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since 1st jan 2009
Saturday, January 26, 2013 8:12 AM

Quick post!

When there is a problem or trouble ..
There's only 3 things that will happen next

1 blame everyone around you
2 blame yourself
3 focus on solving the problem ASAP

Of course there's a
4 choose to do nothing and watch

But mainly there's 3!

I won't gloss things over and say I don't play the blame game too!!
I do!
Just like everyone else.
But really .. The problem lies with how long do you intend to blame people.
How long you intend on making yourself unhappy or the other party unhappy.
It's so much easier to push the blame to people around you.
Sometimes you even gain some sort of gratification from persuading others to choose your side too.
Even when you blame yourself you think that it is an achievement by itself...
it's not.
but shouldnt we stop blaming things and focus on solving the problem itself.?

I'm sure so many of you out there will think of this as common knowledge.
But when trouble really comes ...
Will you do it ?

Seeing too many of this happening... Kinda... Frustrated.