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Saturday, June 1, 2013 8:57 AM

While I'm waiting for my sister to help me. I have decided to post now despite my extreme fatigue 
Omg just kill me now I want to sleep so badly 
1am 
I have been doing so much these past few days 
Gp turned out slightly better than I expected 
I feel a bit relieved
It's like you know you did a better paper somehow 
Of course gp is so so so so much more unpredictable unlike science subjects 
But I think I did okay!!! I think I passed which is something which doesn't come easy to me ! Sighpie 

I'm working out more lately too. 
Wa the feeling when your face sweat is just like COOL YO
Cause cheek fats are the hardest fats to lose. 
And my cheeks are like two big pieces of meat 

Kekeke I just slept and woke up
Good morning people !!!!!!!
I wanna go back to sleep

Anyway I should finally post about what I wanted to post about
Which is relationships
CHANG CHANG CHAAAANG !!!
yesterday I met Ranice on the way home and she gave me a new insight 
She told me that

Every two people value different things and show affection differently
One is by contact
Two quality time
Three simply the character mutual understanding. Similar thinking. Like the personality and presence is enough to attract you 
And a lot of other methods !!!!!!!
But this is all she could remember hehe

And then I was thinking 
Where was I under ???

For many many couples it's pretty obvious 
Some couples those you see on the mrt PDA ing is clearly showing affection by contact. Jingyi Qi hua too. 
But some couples like Lynn and jonny they used value the most about each other through mutual personalities. Not contact definitely.
And then there are couples like the one recently formed around me hahaha
They value quality time together the most. 

Each category has their own pros and cons really. 
Every body treasure their own ways 
But let me give my perspective on it k hehe

Physical contact is a BAD way of treasuring the relationship
Yes it can be the most direct and easiest method of showing affection.
But it can also be very shallow and it's really on the surface type of bond
That being said its not like couples shouldn't hold hands or something
They just shouldn't depend on that to bond cause clearly It won't last long. To me I think !! It's like there's no real basis 

Now mutual attraction and by character. Or quality time . Both I think it's really important
If that person character doesn't attract you in the first place.. Don't freaking enter a relationship with that person just out of habit, sympathy or love for the feeling of being loved.
Cause that's what I did.. Which I deeply regret. 
I think a relationship is better when the guy and girl both fall for each other
And not like the guy chase the girl and the girl didn't fall for the guy until a lot of time has passed and a lot of memories made and then.... The girl wasn't attracted to his character in the first place.

I used think that contact was important tho. But I realized that if there's no initial attraction. No quality quality not quantity time spent together.. A relationship will fall apart eventually. 


Hehehehe 
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