Another valuable knowledge about situations.

There are many types of people who choose to help others. 

There's...

Those who will wont help at all. 

Those who will only help when being asked.

Those who can sense when someone needs their help and will help.

Those who can sense when someone needs help and refuse to help.

And then today I discovered this rare species.

Those that can sense when someone needs help. And force their help on people. Even when the person says he doesn't need help.

And the worst part is that a portion of this rare species gloat when they sense the person being annoyed of intrusive help.

So I wonder why? 

Why would someone force their help even when they know they don't need them?

The probable answer is that this rare species is 

Egoistic.

They feel proud of themselves for doing the right thing. At least the right thing to them. By helping others in need.

And feel proud of themselves of doing so. Like an addition to their list of kind deeds.

And to them annoying the person doesn't matter cause they 'know' that they are doing right. And it's funny that the other person isn't behaving the right way.

But what's most important to them is that they build their self esteem through this perceived help. 

Since they are consistently helping others  everytime they sense it. 

Which is bullshit.

It frustrates me and annoys me.

Don't force your help on others. 

Especially when the person tells you she don't need it. 

Don't be proud of yourself for intruding into people lives and making them feel worse.

It's disgusting.

Another valuable knowledge about situations.

There are many types of people who choose to help others. 

There's...

Those who will wont help at all. 

Those who will only help when being asked.

Those who can sense when someone needs their help and will help.

Those who can sense when someone needs help and refuse to help.

And then today I discovered this rare species.

Those that can sense when someone needs help. And force their help on people. Even when the person says he doesn't need help.

And the worst part is that a portion of this rare species gloat when they sense the person being annoyed of intrusive help.

So I wonder why? 

Why would someone force their help even when they know they don't need them?

The probable answer is that this rare species is 

Egoistic.

They feel proud of themselves for doing the right thing. At least the right thing to them. By helping others in need.

And feel proud of themselves of doing so. Like an addition to their list of kind deeds.

And to them annoying the person doesn't matter cause they 'know' that they are doing right. And it's funny that the other person isn't behaving the right way.

But what's most important to them is that they build their self esteem through this perceived help. 

Since they are consistently helping others  everytime they sense it. 

Which is bullshit.

It frustrates me and annoys me.

Don't force your help on others. 

Especially when the person tells you she don't need it. 

Don't be proud of yourself for intruding into people lives and making them feel worse.

It's disgusting.

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